Recipe for Banana Pudding: Southern Comfort in Every Bite
Banana pudding. Just the words conjure up images of lazy summer afternoons, family gatherings, and the comforting sweetness of a classic Southern dessert. This isn’t just any banana pudding recipe; it’s a journey back to grandma’s kitchen, a celebration of simple ingredients transformed into something truly extraordinary. Forget complicated techniques and fancy ingredients. This recipe focuses on delivering authentic flavor and that melt-in-your-mouth texture that makes banana pudding so irresistible. Get ready to experience banana pudding the way it was meant to be: creamy, dreamy, and utterly delicious.
Why This Recipe Works
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This recipe works because it respects the traditional methods while incorporating a few key tweaks to ensure a perfect pudding every time. Here’s why:
- Real Pudding: We start with a cooked pudding base, which provides a richer, more stable texture than instant pudding mixes. This eliminates the “artificial” taste some find objectionable.
- Vanilla Wafer Harmony: The placement and saturation of the vanilla wafers are crucial. We’ll show you how to layer them perfectly to achieve the ideal balance of soft and slightly crunchy textures.
- Fresh Banana Flavor: Using ripe, but not overripe, bananas is key to a vibrant banana flavor that shines through without becoming mushy.
- Meringue vs. Whipped Cream: We offer options for both a classic meringue topping and a lighter whipped cream topping, allowing you to choose your preferred level of sweetness and richness.
- Chilling is Essential: The extended chilling time allows the flavors to meld together beautifully, creating a cohesive and unforgettable dessert.
Ingredients
- 1 cup granulated sugar: Provides sweetness and helps create the pudding base.
- 1/4 cup all-purpose flour: Thickens the pudding.
- 1/4 teaspoon salt: Enhances the sweetness and balances the flavors.
- 3 cups whole milk: Creates a rich and creamy pudding base.
- 4 large egg yolks: Adds richness, color, and helps thicken the pudding.
- 2 tablespoons unsalted butter: Adds richness and a smooth, glossy finish to the pudding.
- 1 teaspoon vanilla extract: Enhances the overall flavor profile.
- 1 (12-ounce) box vanilla wafers: Forms the base and layers of the pudding.
- 4-5 ripe bananas, sliced: Provides the signature banana flavor. Choose bananas that are yellow with a few brown spots.
- Optional Meringue Topping:
- 4 large egg whites: For the meringue.
- 1/4 teaspoon cream of tartar: Stabilizes the meringue.
- 1/2 cup granulated sugar: Sweetens the meringue.
- Optional Whipped Cream Topping:
- 1 cup heavy cream: For whipping.
- 2 tablespoons powdered sugar: Sweetens the whipped cream.
- 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract: Flavors the whipped cream.

Instructions
- Prepare the Pudding Base: In a medium saucepan, whisk together the sugar, flour, and salt. Gradually whisk in the milk until smooth.
- Cook the Pudding: Cook over medium heat, stirring constantly, until the mixture begins to thicken and comes to a simmer. Reduce heat to low and continue cooking, stirring constantly, for 1 minute. The pudding should be thick enough to coat the back of a spoon.
- Temper the Egg Yolks: In a small bowl, whisk the egg yolks. Slowly drizzle about 1/2 cup of the hot pudding mixture into the egg yolks, whisking constantly to temper them. This prevents the eggs from scrambling when added to the hot pudding.
- Combine and Finish the Pudding: Pour the tempered egg yolk mixture back into the saucepan with the remaining pudding. Cook over low heat, stirring constantly, for 1 minute, or until slightly thickened. Remove from heat and stir in the butter and vanilla extract.
- Layer the Pudding: In a large bowl or trifle dish, arrange a layer of vanilla wafers on the bottom. Top with a layer of sliced bananas, then pour a layer of the pudding over the bananas. Repeat layers of wafers, bananas, and pudding, ending with a layer of pudding.
- Prepare the Topping (Meringue Option): Preheat oven to 350°F (175°C). In a clean, dry bowl, beat the egg whites with the cream of tartar until soft peaks form. Gradually add the sugar, beating until stiff, glossy peaks form. Spread the meringue evenly over the pudding. Bake for 12-15 minutes, or until the meringue is golden brown.
- Prepare the Topping (Whipped Cream Option): In a chilled bowl, beat the heavy cream with an electric mixer until soft peaks form. Add the powdered sugar and vanilla extract and continue beating until stiff peaks form. Spread the whipped cream evenly over the pudding.
- Chill: Cover the pudding with plastic wrap, pressing it directly onto the surface to prevent a skin from forming. Refrigerate for at least 4 hours, or preferably overnight, to allow the flavors to meld.
- Serve: Serve chilled and enjoy!
Tips for Success
- Use Ripe Bananas: Ripe bananas are sweeter and have a stronger banana flavor. However, avoid overripe bananas, as they will become mushy.
- Don’t Overcook the Pudding: Overcooking can result in a curdled or rubbery pudding. Stir constantly and remove from heat as soon as it thickens.
- Prevent a Skin from Forming: Press plastic wrap directly onto the surface of the pudding while it chills to prevent a skin from forming.
- Meringue Tips: Ensure your bowl and beaters are clean and dry for the best meringue results. Beat the egg whites until stiff, glossy peaks form to prevent the meringue from weeping.
- Whipped Cream Tips: Chill your bowl and beaters before whipping the cream for faster and more stable results. Don’t overwhip the cream, or it will turn into butter.
- Wafer Placement: For a softer texture, briefly dip the vanilla wafers in milk before layering. For a crunchier texture, use them straight from the box.
Storage Instructions
Banana pudding is best enjoyed within 2-3 days of making it. Store it covered in the refrigerator. The bananas may brown slightly over time, but this doesn’t affect the flavor. If topped with meringue, the meringue may soften after a day or two.

FAQ
Can I use instant pudding mix? While this recipe is designed for a cooked pudding base, you can substitute instant pudding mix in a pinch. Follow the instructions on the box, but reduce the amount of milk slightly to ensure a thicker consistency.
Can I use a different type of cookie? While vanilla wafers are traditional, you can experiment with other cookies, such as shortbread cookies or graham crackers.
Can I add nuts? Chopped pecans or walnuts make a delicious addition to banana pudding. Sprinkle them between the layers or on top.
Can I make this ahead of time? Yes, banana pudding is best made a day ahead of time to allow the flavors to meld. However, if using whipped cream, it’s best to add it just before serving to prevent it from weeping.
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Why is my pudding lumpy? Lumpy pudding is usually caused by not stirring constantly while cooking or by not tempering the egg yolks properly. Make sure to stir continuously and temper the egg yolks slowly to prevent them from scrambling.
Conclusion
There you have it: a classic banana pudding recipe that’s sure to impress. Whether you’re serving it at a family gathering, a potluck, or simply enjoying a sweet treat on a warm day, this banana pudding is guaranteed to be a crowd-pleaser. So gather your ingredients, put on some good music, and get ready to create a little slice of Southern comfort. Enjoy!